For you

Hey, finally the present is in your hand. After numerous planning, the present only reached you by now. Can celebrate one month anniversary. Ha. As you know, I am not good with buying. So hope you like it. At least, I know the card is something you like.

We are quite super. From standing to siting to changing postion, we can just talk for 1.5 hours. No wonder I felt thirsty when I finally reached home. Haha. By the way, learn more routes so we can drive somewhere when we want. Counting down to Oct 16. Hopefully by Dec, the P-plates which you can take down will be of use to me. Haha. Wish me luck! I need a lot and I mean it.

I love the time I spent walking. It is a time when all kind of thoughts will appear. Along the way, I saw a primary school. Laughter and shouting filled the air. Those kids are enjoying themselves. Then reached a secondary school. The same old thing.

As a saying "Life is a bed of roses" goes by, it will depend on which perspective life is being subjected to. Rose contains thorns. We may get pricked by these teeny weeny thorns without knowing. Just like people. Overall, it appears harmless. Yet, on further inspection, it may contain tiny little thorns that just prick and scar us. Is it worth while to continue holding it knowing full well that accident may happen unknowingly? What should we do? Stay away and never touch it. Or simply remove the thorns.

Now the complexity of friendship/people is revealing itself. How blessed I am to truly acknowledge this revelation at only such a age. More of this will happen. It will only show the ugly side. Something I do not want to associate with.

Normal

Life in cheers has been alright. Things are going on well just that there are hiccups every now and then. It is perfectly normal since we are so new. Even the suppliers get a headache because we are always changing people and thus, they have a hard time looking for the correct person. Still, it is a great learning experience. It has been more than a week or nearly two weeks there. Time flies unknowingly. It is a plus point that I have fantastic teammates who helped me with things I should do. Especially today when I am bombarded with so many things and I only have a pair of hands. People’s characters, especially individual stands out easily. However, as long as the task is done and everything operates smoothly, it is not a big deal. Enjoy!

I guess this post is straight to the point. So at least you guys will not have more question marks popping up. ;)

The choice is yours

Do not leave life to fate simply because you are afraid of making the wrong decision.

Life is simply a sum total of the choices you have made. You are free to choose, but the choices you make today will determine what you will have, be and do in the tomorrow of your life.

That may seem a little daunting, when you do pause in your journey through life’s many twists and turns, and consider how you actually make choices.

Choice of career, choice of spouse, choice of investment, the list goes on.

Is it by instinct or do you actually analyse the important decisions you make in life? Or do you get so paralysed by the fear of making the wrong decision that you simply abdicate from any responsibility and just leave it to “fate”?

Schools do not teach you how to make choices in life, but it is a skill that can be learnt, and once mastered, can help you live the life your dreams.

Race (News)

Finish a race well. Many who start on well but get distracted and run out of steam along the way. One may start off poorly but as long as he intent on finishing life’s race well, it is good enough. We all have different ideas of what finishing the race well in life means. For many, it may mean being successful, for others, breaking away from some destructive habit like drugs or alcoholism. And for an even smaller group perhaps, goals that are not tangible – living right, being honest or living to help and serve others.

(News)

As Professor Joanne B. Ciulla puts it in her book The Working Life (2000): “For many, life consists mostly of exhaustion from work and then rejuvenation for work.”

“Their lives are like the Danaides’ leaky water jars – they pour bits of happiness in, but the jar itself will never be full.”

From his studies on happiness, the American psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi found that people experienced “flow”, or peaking joy, 50% of the time when they were at work. Oddly, they enjoyed flow only 18% of the time when they were at play. So is work happiness, or happiness work?

In the book Good Work (2001), Prof Csikszentmihalyi, Howard Gardner and William Damon ponder the sometimes uneasy bedfellows of excellence and ethics in life. Their clear-cut gauge of a person’s identity is what they call “the universal mirror test”, named after a German ambassador who, pressed to provide a bevy of prostitutes for a royal celebration, resigned. Asked why, he said: “I refused to see a pimp in the mirror in the morning when I shave.”